Hands in pockets body language
Hands in pockets body language
Why peoples have hands in pockets body language?
Often is cold, and peoples let his hands to don’t freeze on the weather. Another, often seen sign is in boredom. People don’t known what to do, so his hands begin to play. A person thinking that all the other peoples see his behavior, so a best way to hide his hand from the foreign eyes is to put in pockets. Often to, persons try to hide his hands in a cases of hiding an information. Another way to use this gesture is by pointing to genital area, all the fingers are in pockets, exclude the thumb finger, it points to genital area. As You see, hands in pockets body language is often presented, but for different reason and with different meaning.
Is the usage of hands in pockets body language good or bad?
Both. You just need to known in which contextual message is included this behavior. If You talk with a person in one windy could day, the hands in pockets body language is almost normal, but not if You made an interview in Your company with a new one employe. In interrogation processes are pockets oft removed, or a interrogator ask the person to move his hands out from a pocket. This have a reason in a widely showed signals and gesticulations. Not all the peoples have a same way and intensity to gesticulate, but the meaning of
hands in pockets body language is always a same – hiding of the hand and arm presented signs.
Shal i use hands in pockets body language?
Is depend on the situation what You want. If You wish to be earnest, never use hands in pockets body language. I prefer alway to leave the hands in visible area of the other person. Is better to show the emotion if is it an anger or boredom, but to hide it from the other. Another reason why is good not show the hands in pockets body language is the opening position to others. Hiding or just a trying to hide something is often a sign of weakness. The only one situation if is this body language useful is if You try to remove a person from You, but the way of removing is more passive. At this situation the other person will feel that is “something wrong” with You, so he will take a distance from You, but more suptile as with other methods.
How to act if You see the hands in pockets body language by other?
I like to remove ever a hands from pockets by other. The message and the signs from hands are important in a communications, so i like to have this source to. Is not so easy to put other peoples to remove his hands from pockets, but there are some tricks for that. For first is a handshake. Is not often that a peoples decline a hand by handshake, so the chance that a person remove his hands from pockets is high. Another good way is to please the person to show the way of a next ATM or Taxi place. Important is by this methods to be certain but relaxed and funny. If the person don’t percept You as a source of danger, he will remove his hands. If You are in higher position, like a security personal, management stuff, teacher, etc, the best way to stop the
hands in pockets body language is to please the person to remove his hands. By this have You to be direct, maybe a stronger eye contact is needed, but don’t show anger or fear.
The final conclusion about the hands in pockets body language is a hiding message, but be careful byu making a decision in windy cold days, where peoples put of his hands in pocket. There is ever a way to remove hands from pockets, and You have to use it, because lot of non-verbal communication is presented in hands.